add ruff and remove redundant pre-commits

[giovp]

replace flake8 and a bunch of other pre-commit with https://github.com/charliermarsh/ruff, a faster alternative.

If accepted/in scopre, merge only after #269

[giovp]

I think nbqa are the slowest pre-commits at the moment but there is no first-party integration. I think it'd also make sense to remove some of the pre-commit/pre-commit-hooks, that could be replaced for example by prettier ?

[giovp]

now there are "E","F","W","I", with autofix, which would introduce way too many changes in docs and tests and maybe it should be done later on (more stable repo, not today), so I explicitly removed them.

[michalk8]

now there are "E","F","W","I", with autofix, which would introduce way too many changes in docs and tests and maybe it should be done later on (more stable repo, not today), so I explicitly removed them.

Perfect, can you create another issue after this one is merged for this?
LGTM, merging this since the linter passing, thanks @giovp !